Looking at Your Past Will Reveal Your Financial Present
Updated: May 5
Your money mindset is generally similar to your parents’ as they have a large impact on your thoughts and feelings about money.
● How they managed their money affected your quality of life as a child
● How they spoke about money affected your thoughts about money
● Your parents’ reactions to financial setbacks made an impression on you whether you know it or not
How your parents managed money affected your quality of life: Whether you wore hand-me-downs, or your clothes came from the finest stores, this was a direct result of your parents’ thoughts about money. The types of foods you ate and whether you ever vacationed as a child was due to your parents’ decisions about their budget. If you lived hand-to-mouth or affluent, it was a direct result of your parents’ ability to earn and manage their income. Their thoughts about money were absorbed by their personal experiences as well. That’s why you may have had plenty of money but also had a parent who always thought the sky was falling so they never spent anything, or a parent who was always overspending and putting the family at risk with their financial decisions.
How they spoke about money affected your thoughts about money: If your parents believed that the path to wealth was tied to working hard or saving for a rainy day, you likely place a very high premium on grinding it out and not spending. If your parents shared their worries over the utility bills or told you things you wanted were “too expensive,” you may have gotten the message that things you’d like to have are bad or make you greedy. These sorts of messages can linger in your psyche - even if you have more than enough income today.
Your parents’ reactions to financial setbacks made an impression on you whether you know it or not: You may not have had a front row seat to the conversations your parents had when a financial setback happened, but you likely knew something was up. Tension in the home or blatant fear or anger often leak out when people are stressed about income. This tension or the outward expression of fear always has an impact. As a child, you may not have been able to connect the dots, but as an adult you might have unexplained weird feelings or thoughts about money simply because you were in proximity to your parents while they were under stress.
Looking at your past can help you see if you have money mindset issues absorbed by your childhood. Left unchecked, these can be a predictor of how you will manage your wealth, financial and otherwise. The great news is, you can undo any negative mindset or beliefs that you absorbed as a kid and replace them with healthy and wealthy beliefs.
This content was created by Piggy Makes Bank and presented by Mountain Flower Investments & Planning.